tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6644918126688721788.post3708896867657288851..comments2024-03-29T01:35:22.790+00:00Comments on TONE DEAF: The Passchendaele of gift buyingRoderick Robinsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16828395545197001637noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6644918126688721788.post-85388019184432786042014-12-17T12:25:27.386+00:002014-12-17T12:25:27.386+00:00Excellent - this post had me giggling in recogniti...Excellent - this post had me giggling in recognition of the situation. I wish I had been there!Blonde Twohttp://twoblondeswalking.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6644918126688721788.post-39527927275631335222014-12-12T15:26:06.135+00:002014-12-12T15:26:06.135+00:00All: Whereas I am delighted to receive any comment...All: Whereas I am delighted to receive any comments these days - even the drop-dead kind - I can't have made myself clear. This was not a traditional anti-Christmas-shopping rant; for one thing VR hates shopping even more than I do. If I said I was simply the chauffeur I ought perhaps to have added "supportive". I volunteered to take VR down to Hereford and to trudge round with her attempting to ease her horrors. As a result - and those who write should always do unpleasant chores every now and then - I saw the concept of the "gift" with new eyes. Saw the blatant exploitation in an area where many people have opinions but few have any knowledge. And this is not a case of women alone being led by the nose. There are tarted up versions of these wretched "gifts" for equally gullible men.<br /><br />I should add that as married couples get older it may be necessary - however male their inclinations - for husbands to participate in their wives' activities, however arcane. Managing to pass 50 years together is all very well but is ultimately meaningless if one or the other is often lonely despite having another resident close by.<br /><br />Pursuing this advocacy of self-mortification it can bring unexpected pleasures. I was risking it when I urged VR to do Boots there and then. VR tends to be suspicious of many of my suggestions. But her subsequent gratitude was unfeigned and the champagne will taste all the better. Thanks, Crow, for spotting that.Roderick Robinsonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16828395545197001637noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6644918126688721788.post-64314746311062533442014-12-12T14:26:22.750+00:002014-12-12T14:26:22.750+00:00I'm stealing Stella's idea!
While you mig...I'm stealing Stella's idea!<br /><br />While you might have had your own interest in not going shopping again uppermost in your offer, your thoughtfulness was a kindness appreciated by your beloved. Good job, RR!<br /><br />Go select a present of your heart's desire from Stella's Magic Gift Cupboard.The Crowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04846997590157958766noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6644918126688721788.post-57622654865440645262014-12-12T12:49:25.102+00:002014-12-12T12:49:25.102+00:00Here's the solution to the awful aspect of Chr...Here's the solution to the awful aspect of Christmas shopping: the gift cupboard. When you are out and about, perhaps in London with time on your hands, or in a charming old town without a Costco, buy up whatever you see that is irresistible, take it home and put in in the gift cupboard. You know Christmas is going to come around again, and you know whose birthdays you are obliged to and browsing through your clever inventory is entirely stress free. Christmas shopping is tyranny!Stellahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10789646495307544390noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6644918126688721788.post-31723093909959033812014-12-12T11:45:47.371+00:002014-12-12T11:45:47.371+00:00I must admit I loathe dragging round "ladies&...I must admit I loathe dragging round "ladies" shops with my wife. Women seem to enjoy the browsing and comparing, men tend to have a shopping list, go to a shop and get what they want - then go and do useful stuff like extracting motorcycle engines from their frames.<br />We live close to Canterbury, where we go for most shopping (Ashford being dire). When we get off the Park and Ride bus there we tend to go our separate ways, to meet up later at a pre-arranged cafe.<br />I get most of my stuff via the internet these days. Very quick and efficient it usually is, too. e.g. I ordered a gel motorcycle battery from a firm in Birmingham one afternoon and it arrived by Parcel Force the next morning. Worth paying slightly extra for the post and packing. In the old days one would go to the local dealer, who would order it and say "comeback in 14 days and it might be here".Avushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16512540148378201058noreply@blogger.com